The title goes here. Free writing.  

There is no pre-determined guarantee for relationships.

Love is often confused with many other things, but when it is real; the “feel it in your bones” feeling of love, never goes away.

It is always there despite, no matter what the situation…. for better or worse.

It’s waiting in the back of me every time; to love again; when the trials of our lives ease up, and I come back down to reality. I cannot stop the feeling no matter how hard I try to, and you will have to make me hate you, to get me to stop.

That’s ME fully, that’s HOW I AM. That’s how I love.

Please don’t make me hate you.

I have always loved hard.

I fall too easily, I trust too easily, I believe what people tell me too easily….all the time…I always have. 

I like to believe that I’m worth love. 

But the kind of love, and the idea of love I have always searched for, is something that I can’t ever seem to fully get all the way. 

I’ve had two failed marriages; one 10 months, another 13 years. A five-year, online, long-distance, fuck up my life completely, cluster fuckkkkkkkkkkkkk of a “relationship”; and now T.

Those ARE my major relationships in my adult life.

No one compares to T.

I struggle every day to be the kind of woman that T deserves. I know I am failing, and then I ask myself why, and what I will do about it. 

I wish really, that there was a guarantee that we will make it; but there’s not. 

The only guarantee there is, is the one that I make to myself. 

I will continue to be honest about my feelings, needs and wants.

I don’t believe in hiding who you are from anyone anymore… especially the man you love.

I know that things aren’t perfect in my life right now…or my relationship.

But I do know that T is the only man, who has made me feel like I deserved love. And I never thought I’d ever feel that from a man. I never had until him. 

I guess that’s why they say love is patient.

I hope that I can work out my life, so that I can be the woman, that I know I am.

The damage I carry is real, and I’ve had more than I care to have these last months, and it fucks up everything…to the point that I have to make the choice to stop letting it infect, every good thing that I touch. 

It’s hard when there’s stuff you need to talk about and understand, but you know there’s probably no way you ever could, because you weren’t given the option upfront to know about it.

I can’t figure out what I could have done differently…except for me to do the exact opposite thing, and I obviously made the choice to be in this relationship. 

 I’m not a quitter. 

Every day is a new day to try. 

“Love without Limits, Fight without Fear.” 

It’s tattooed on my arm, but what does that mean to ME?

I made it up. Truth. Because I had made a choice that day to try to understand myself; and those are two things I try to do.

I hope there is a God AND that he will help me.

This is a free writing ramble.

I am sober, alive, confused, hurt, determined, and in love.

I need a miracle to fix my brain, and my life. 

I’m really just trying to be as positive as I can right now;

And I don’t feel bad for writing any of this, because it’s gotten me to this very moment.

Love yourself.

J. Rounds ©2017 ~Peaces of ME

4 thoughts on “The title goes here. Free writing.  

  1. I wish you could see the love I feel for you. I’m sorry I want totally open. I didn’t know how to be. I love you and have tried to show you that you are all I need

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    • I know. That’s why I’m trying to be honest and let you know how I feel. I know I could show my love more, and I’m going to. I know that time heals a lot of stuff too. It has to be totally open, or I don’t think we will get through it. I know we can though. Because truly no one knows me like you do, or even wanted to. My love for you will always be. I don’t want to lose “us”. 💘

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  2. There is no perfect love here on earth, love requires A LOT of work and frankly I haven’t been too perfect at it in the past and nobody else I know is great at it, either.

    Sometimes what seems perfect from the outside, fairy tale even, is likely not so much perfect any more than your love with T.

    Enjoy each other for who you are, where you both are at in life, and what you have been through separately and together. You both seem so happy together, keep WORKING at it, because it is first and foremost, work. But it is the best work you will ever do, love is.

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    • This comment went in, and is resignating very hard and nicely. Thank you. I know that in the end, it will be what we make of it, and that it will depend on the work we put in. I am hoping that I can stop feeling so afraid. Thanks for the comment, really.

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